Q: “How do I approach my parents to talk with them about alcohol?”
A: Orien, Age 17
As a teenager it is often hard to raise certain issues of discussion with your parents when it comes down to yourself or your personal concerns. Teens often think that if a “touchy” situation is brought up they will get into some trouble with their parents.

Fortunately, there is a way not to have to worry about trouble or about your parents thinking badly of you. It is all about the approach taken. For example, underage alcohol use, this topic of discussion is not an easy one to approach but is definitely a necessary one, especially if you are a teen who is experiencing trouble with alcohol or if you know of a teen that is using alcohol.

Underage alcohol use is one of deadliest threats to teenagers across the world. Underage alcohol use is often looked upon as being “Cool,” but in reality it is not. This is why it is crucial that teens talk to their parents or even an older sibling about the effects of alcohol. One way of bringing up underage alcohol usage for discussion would be to first humble yourself. It is very important that you go to your parent/sibling with the mindset to listen and to be honest. No one can get anywhere when they enter a discussion defensively. Next, ask them about some of their personal experiences with the usage of alcohol, primarily underage alcohol usage. This allows your parent/sibling to open up to you and share with you some stories about their past. Plus, it allows you two to share some bond time with each other.

After your parent has shared with you his or her stories of underage alcohol usage, whether they are funny or terror stories, it is now time for you to open up. It is important that you be honest with your parents about yourself; this shows them that you are trustworthy and are able to come clean with them should anything happen. You should ask them about their feelings towards underage alcohol usage. Many times what you think are your parents thoughts are not. They, too, were young once and they too can hold some surprises. Share with them your feelings toward underage alcohol usage. Explain to them just how you feel about it: if you think it is okay or if you are opposed to it. You should also share with them if you are thinking about taking part in underage alcohol usage or even if you already have.

After the two of you have shared feelings about underage drinking it is now time to share the facts. Do some research, whether it is on the Internet, in medical books, or talking to a counselor. This research will reveal to you the facts about underage drinking and the effects it can leave behind in your body. Hopefully after learning about the dangers of alcohol you will be fully persuaded to hold off, at least until drinking age, which is 21.